How can you cope with life's setbacks?

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Here we are going to write today a few things that will help prepare for that. As the days of life flow, we face so many defeats. They can be about love, work, friendships, and everyday life. Wherever it is, this is going to tell you how to cling to the same defeats and move forward with the defeats of life without ruining other things.  


1. Accept defeat

Here's what most people do not do. But it is difficult for all of them to endure defeats and move forward in life because they do not really do this here. No matter what the problems in life may be, the first thing we need to do is to understand the situation clearly. Even if it is a defeat. We have to clearly understand what happened and admit that we lost and that something was lost. Only then can the mind be formed and resurrected. Otherwise, I can not accept that something like this happened, I can not bear to stay in the same place every day.

2. Compare the loss

This sounds like a bit of a joke. But this is also a very valuable step. Suppose you had to face defeat in your ongoing business or job. In such a case it is very easy to calculate and compare the loss. But what if the loss of a loved one, a dream fades? Yes, then you can compare the losses. Feeling we have 'Run out of gas' emotionally can be debilitating. If you are not sure, ask the patients who are counting the life in the final stages of a cancer ward. So whatever it is, keep in mind that I am still alive and want to continue living.   

3. Remember the bigger goals in life

Instead of trying to recover, they wallow in their sadness and thus, experience more failure. Start working hard again for that goal. Even if I lose this, one day I will start to think anew that I can be happy with the biggest goal I have in mind. Even minor setbacks can easily make the difference between success and failure. With that victory comes a sense of how small this defeat is. 

4. Talk to the nearest person

Losing the comforting words of a close friend is never worth the loss. Even if you forget all three of the things we mentioned earlier, you may still be reminded by a close friend. Remind him that he will be there for you in case of any defeat. Free yourself from the feeling of being alone. 

5. Go on a tour with a change

Walking is a perfect solution to many mental problems. Go on a little trip alone or with a close friend like we said earlier. Feel free to think as you go, understand the situation and make up your mind when you go and look at the beautiful things. And when I walk around the country and see the daily struggles of people for a living, I can't help but wonder what my defeat is. However, walking in the environment is a great way to heal the mind.

6. Start in a new place

Start life in a new place after crying, thinking, walking and doing everything after defeat. If you have old memories that are hard to forget, start the journey from a different place where you can avoid them forever or temporarily. Things like a new job, a new hobby can help with this. If you can't do big things, change the way you go. It is easy to forget the old defeat while getting used to the new change. 

7. Be as busy as possible

Here is the last and best solution. No matter what kind of defeat it is, it's the loss of a job, the loss of love, the easiest way to forget, to make up your mind is to be busy. Focus on the things that can change the focus as much as possible. But you can imagine how busy a person can be if he or she loses his or her job. That is the answer. They can read books, watch movies and indulge in any hobby like growing flowers. Why go jogging, try to think about the body. How cruel you are. It doesn't matter, you have to be busy. Keep busy until you forget defeat.